i figured it out. Apparently my mobo just shot craps
i swapped RAM, PSUs, Processors, pretty much everything and then i noticed the caps under the processor socket went ka-blooie.
Eh, i had a spare A7N8X-E v1.02 in the closet so i swapped it into the case and everything has been peachy since. espically since the USB 2.0 headers in my new board actually work! That should've clued me in on the old board because they NEVER worked at all.
another positive is my A7N8X v2 could reach 200MHz but not 201MHz. The new mobo will take me all the way to 209MHz x 11.5 w/matching memory timings. I keep it clocked at 200MHz, but just thought it was interesting, especially with a AQHYA stepped XP-M, instead of the better IQHYA (or however those letter go

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thanks for the help anyways!
lee